Summer Online Safety: Stay Engaged, Stay Informed, Stay Connected

As the school year winds down and the summer months approach, many young people will find themselves with more free time—and more time online. Whether it’s gaming, chatting, scrolling through social media, or joining new digital communities, the internet becomes a central part of how kids connect, unwind, and explore during summer break.

But while the digital world can offer creativity and connection, it also comes with real risks—especially when parents and caregivers aren’t aware of who’s on the other side of the screen.

Now more than ever, it’s critical to stay informed, stay engaged, and stay connected with your child.

Online predators often take advantage of unsupervised time and the anonymity of digital platforms to build trust with young people, gradually grooming them in ways that can be hard to detect at first. A friend request or casual message can quickly turn into something much more dangerous.

As a parent or caregiver, you don’t need to be a tech expert—but you do need to be present. Here are some important things to consider this summer:

1. Start the Conversation Early and Often

Ask open-ended questions like:

• “Who are you talking to online these days?”

• “What kind of apps or games are you into right now?”

• “Has anyone made you feel uncomfortable online?”Avoid judgment or panic—your calm, supportive presence makes it more likely your child will come to you when something doesn’t feel right.

2. Know the Signs

Watch for changes in behavior, such as:

• Withdrawing from family or friends

• Secrecy around phone or computer use

• Sudden mood changes or anxiety

• Receiving gifts, money, or new items without a clear source

These could be signs your child is being manipulated or coerced by someone online.

3. Set Boundaries Together

Co-create screen time rules and talk about healthy digital habits. This builds trust and helps kids understand why limits are in place—especially around apps that allow private messaging or anonymous interactions.

4. Be Accessible

Sometimes, just being available makes all the difference. Make time to be with your kids—whether it’s over a meal, a walk, or shared screen time—and let them know they can talk to you without fear of punishment or shame.

Summer is a time for rest, play, and growth—but it’s also a time when we need to be especially mindful. The digital world is vast, and not everyone your child meets online has good intentions. By staying engaged, asking the right questions, and fostering an open, judgment-free space, you become your child’s best line of defense.

Let’s keep our kids safe, curious, and connected—for all the right reasons.